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huRtZ413 posted 7/26/2013 22:22 PM

i use to be a writer somewhat poetic back in the day what happened ??? i was very creative artistic loved painting and loved music i would spend my days reading a good book and listening to music with my pop and snack lounge around happily daydreaming where my life will take me .

now im a SAHM of 2 small girls age 1 and 4 and i love them so much i try and pass on the artsy stuff but its like i lost it.....i fill unfulfilled in some why thought id be further along by now ...be a dental hygienist by now or in a dance studio somewhere lol getting ready to get my girls a house and just being comfortable ....yet im unemployed dental assistant with only one shared car no home anytime soon and i dont feel like my girls would be proud of that.....


funny how i dont mention my WH in all this maybe because i already know im not everything i can be when i comes to that because i have every reason to not know what to do with that.

MovingUpward posted 7/26/2013 22:42 PM

(((hugs)))

unemployed dental assistant with only one shared car no home anytime soon and i dont feel like my girls would be proud of that.....

Kids need loving parents. When they have that the rest is all fluff. You sound like a loving mother, so I am sure that they will be very proud of you.

Pentup posted 7/27/2013 19:38 PM

Maybe join a painting class or buy yourself a small sketch book and doodle your girls or grab some play dough with them. I think the more you allow yourself time to "play" with the creative, te more it will come back to you.

Also, post trauma (like a death or whatever brought you here....) can cramp your artistic side at first. Give yourself time, dance with your girls. You have accomplished a lot if you raise 2 girls to adulthood who are loved and loving.

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