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User Topic: Duuuuude...
damncutekitty
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That bizarre moment when you realize you have been divorced for longer than you were married .


Keep calm and carry on.

Posts: 49482 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis
jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. Me too! (from 1st xww)
M-15y
D-16y
Duuuuuudette!

Posts: 6763 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
SBB
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Without wanting to wish my life away... I say bring.it.on!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5657 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be in my 70s before I get to that point.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26175 | Registered: Aug 2011
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hit that moment this year too.


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 13835 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It didn't take me long to hit that point

I had the milestone of being separated longer than we were together, being divorced longer than we were married & together, and being divorced longer than we were legally married (stupid mandatory separation period).

ETA: I think my favorite has been comparing my marriage to my laptop. I bought her (my mac ) the week XH and I started dating. She has outlasted him by years now.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 10:41 AM, July 27th (Saturday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13869 | Registered: Jul 2011
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It will be 2028 before that happens for me.


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Dec 2008
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be too old to remember.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17703 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Take2
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be 86... Holy Crap...Dude!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4166 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

17 more years for me. but at least I won't be as old as NIK. (just teasing, sweetie )


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12170 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uppity young'uns.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26175 | Registered: Aug 2011
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12170 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Only 15 more years to go for me. Omg, I'll be 60.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7817 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

14 years for me. I'll be 76. Damn!


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5901 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our d took over three years but if I count from the point of d, I've got a good 17 years to go.

Eep.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15435 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be seventy. FML


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10022 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It will happen when I turn 100


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20446 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think my favorite has been comparing my marriage to my laptop. I bought her (my mac ) the week XH and I started dating. She has outlasted him by years now.

It has also been a while.


I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams

Posts: 4749 | Registered: Nov 2007
persevere
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

April 2019....


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4669 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cripes I'll be 59.

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