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million pieces (original poster member #27539) posted at 8:34 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
http://theartinlife.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/my-husband-is-not-my-soul-mate/
More religious than I am, but overall very close to what I believe in a more secular way
Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!
Embers2Fire ( member #25557) posted at 11:45 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Thank you for sharing that, it was very thought provoking.
BS - me 49
XWH - him 48
DDay 05/08
Married 25 yrs, 2 sons 28/23
Divorced
2nd Marriage 11/1/13 livng the dream
God has breathed new life into me fanning my fading Embers into a brightly burning Fire.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 12:46 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013
I thought she was very young & naïve. I'll be interested if she's so blythe about choices when some unpleasant ones come along & she can't control which choice is made.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
million pieces (original poster member #27539) posted at 9:59 PM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013
I thought she sounded pretty wise. I think she is saying you always have a choice on how to respond to a situation. By saying someone is your soul mate, you take away the choice and as my IC said, "whenever she hears the word soul mate, she know someone is trying to justify something wrong." By just going with a feeling (falling in luv) what do you do when you don't have those feelings anymore?
I know I am sensitive to the term soul mate. My ex found his and he said he had no choice but to follow his heart... 
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Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!
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