I just recently (a few days ago) found proof of my husband's infidelity (I've been wondering for weeks). It involves an online/ phone affair with another woman, as well as Craigslist ads for casual sex. I can't deal with it anymore, and I need to confront his ASAP. Just wondering, should I tell him I want a divorce (I don't, but I feel like it may be the only option for us), or do I just tell him what I know and find out what he wants? Honestly, I don't give a f*ck what he wants right now, but I want to know where his head is. Is he remorseful, or is divorce his way out so he can continue his disgusting behavior without is pesky wife looking over his shoulder...me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day
married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m
"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."