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 tabitha95 (original poster member #22033) posted at 4:47 PM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

If you start the guided communication with someone, when they get your message and view your profile, will it show up in who viewed you? Or is that only before communication starts from either side?

I hate that I'm trying OLD.

BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

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forced2moveon ( member #12014) posted at 6:53 PM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

Yes, you can see who viewed your profile.

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BrokenSpirit50 ( member #34485) posted at 5:54 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013

Tabitha yes, it will show anytime they view you even if you are communicating with them.

Married 32 years, together for 40
DDay Dec. 17, 2011
No R, D June 21, 2012

Me BS 58
Him WH 59

Now with WBF 3 yrs. DD#2 June 5, 2018

Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has si

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 tabitha95 (original poster member #22033) posted at 8:46 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013

Thanks. I don't think he's been on. It says active within a month and he hasn't viewed or responded.

Either way, it's been a week and I'm thinking about pulling the plug.

BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

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 tabitha95 (original poster member #22033) posted at 8:53 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013

I'm hardly getting any matches and the couple I do get, the guy mispelled his job title.

It keeps saying to expand my geography, but I don't want long distance, so I'm keeping it at 30 miles.

There was one interesting person, the one I contacted, but he was originally out of my age bracket. He's 50, I'm 44. I put 40 to 48. He may be off eharmony or on vacation.

Either way, eharmony's 3 month trial has been a rip off.

BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

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BrokenSpirit50 ( member #34485) posted at 12:13 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013

I had to expand my geographical area too. I live in a big metropolitan area and even someone in the area could be 60+ miles away. In fact the gentleman I am seeing currently lives close to 70 miles away. Good thing he likes to drive! Good luck with EH.

Married 32 years, together for 40
DDay Dec. 17, 2011
No R, D June 21, 2012

Me BS 58
Him WH 59

Now with WBF 3 yrs. DD#2 June 5, 2018

Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has si

posts: 305   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2012   ·   location: Midwest
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