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And I started scanning a dating site ... I know I'm not ready but I have never been on one so I thought I would just look.

But I am kind of shocked at all the men on there that are in their early 50's and state they have never been married... May be it is just me since I had been married for so long and it seems like everyone I knew had at least been married once. But this kind of set me back a bit and gave me a red flag feeling.

What do you all think?

Interesting, that hasn't been my experience at all...most of the 50+year olds in my area on Match are divorced. Ones who've never been married seem to be pretty rare.

You can't know why they haven't married unless you ask...and only when you hear their reason can you really tell if it is a red flag.

I'm more cautious about the widowers for some reason...