Member # 40098
| Posted: 6:02 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013|
I found out May 22 2013, and found out about a 3rd one, yes 3rd one on July 26,2013, they all happened while he was deployed, He told me yesterday that we werent in love with each other and he loves her, after 4 months,, I told him to break it off because i found out thru text,, He texted her and told her, he is going to work it out with me and not to contact him again, and she has not, she didnt even answer back to find out why, he wanted to work it out.. I told him, wow she let go of you pretty fast. I am devastated, numb, I was doing well until I found out about this last one, he was deployed each time,, he leaves again in 6 months, he wants to try to work it out and so do I. we have been married almost 14 years, and 3 kids!!! Im lost and hurt
Posts: 1 | Registered: Jul 2013
Member # 36622
| Posted: 6:22 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013|
Welcome to SI. I am so sorry for what yo. are going through. There is a lot of support here to help you get through it.
All of us here understand your pain and confusion we have been there. Please vent, ask questions, read throughout the site. A good place to start is the healing library in the upper left corner of the screen.
Try to take care of yourself. Eat sleep drink plenty of water.
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A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"
Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 30341
| Posted: 9:09 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so sorry that you find yourself here Whyme. I hope you'll find the support and help you need on this site. Please post as often as you need to, ask questions, read what others in your situation have experienced.
And try to eat well, exercise and get enough sleep. This is a very stressful time and you need to take care of yourself so that you can take care of your children!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:54
Posts: 4023 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Member # 34766
| Posted: 7:23 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
So sorry you have found yourself here, please know that you are not alone. Below is a link to a thread in the "I Can Relate" forums that is specific to Deployment. I hope this helps, others will be along shortly with more help.
Take care of yourself and your young ones, you will get through this.
If there is reincarnation I hope OM comes back as a low water flush truck stop toilet!
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