Ugghhhh! Found out today my WH has continued his lies about contact from his AP. I have asked regularly if she has tried to text or call him since the NC phone call. He has emphatically said, "NO". And followed it with "and I haven't tried to contact her either.
The truth is she HAS contacted him, the first 2x were immediately after NC phone call when I left his office. He replied back to her text and then answered her call to his office phone.
She called his office phone again yesterday asking him to do something for a client. He called our pastor and asked how to handle it. Problem is he never disclosed this to me until today. I feel deceived!!! I am sick of his lies, omissions, half-truths, etc.
She is not his only affair!! I am dealing with different APs, online behavior, ONS, etc. WHY am I still trying to beleive him?!!!!!!!!