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User Topic: Back after a while....
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi everyone, I hope you are all having a decent summer! I am back after a while of absence. It was a particularly rough day today. My husband moved in to his own apartment about three weeks ago. He still spends a lot of time around me (especially when he has to be alone with the kids). I had a nightmare about his affair and told him about it, asking him if he had had contact with her. He said no and was annoyed that I was questioning him....he is always annoyed at this. He is never able to console me, show remorse (he says his empty sorrys, I was wrong), or give me any sign he wants this marriage. I still get the "I need to work on me" crap. As time goes on, he is showing himself as simply the most self absorbed, egotistical and uncaring individual. Why then am I holding on? Seems stupid. If this were any one of you, I would tell you that you are worth so much more than this. Respect yourself. Thanks for listening to my always, it is so nice to have a place to come where people truly understand!

Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Maine
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isnt it magnificently tragic how we know what we should do, know what we would say to anyone else, yet do the opposite smh. Im right with you!

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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry to hear that you're having a rough day. (((((hugs)))))

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