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 WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 1:28 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013

WH told me about a mutual friend who has been accused of stealing from the community organization of which she is a member. We don't know any details, other than the rumor. He said, "I don't know if we should still be friends with her". I took a few deep breaths then said, "well, sometimes people we care for do stupid, morally bankrupt things and we still manage to love them". We both laughed a bit over than one and I'm having lunch with her this weekend.

Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 1:59 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013

I think it's a really good sign that you both could laugh a little at his statement, that shows healing

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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 WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 5:47 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013

yeah, he looked kind of stricken for a minute until he saw I was smiling. Compassion and empathy are not his strong suits but maybe he's learning.

[This message edited by WeepingBuddhist at 11:47 AM, July 29th (Monday)]

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Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

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