A lot has happened for you in only 5 weeks.
But the others are right. It is hard to stop being the one who "organizes" and "reminds", but you must. You really don't need to remind him of anything.
My WXH did not get a lawyer. A dumb decision, I thought, but SO not my problem.
Take care of yourself and your kids. Don't worry about what he does or does not do.
[This message edited by SadMad2012 at 12:08 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)]