Topic: Breast Cancer
Member # 16921
| Posted: 10:08 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
My SIL was just diagnosed with breast cancer. Her surgery (lumpectomy) is scheduled for Thursday. She went to visit my niece last week (her daughter) and while on the plane felt a new lump at her collar bone. Needless to say she didn't enjoy her trip too much. She did call the surgeon and told him what she felt and she has an appointment with him tomorrow.
Please say a prayer that they don't delay the surgery because of this new finding.
She is in panic mode (and so am I, but I won't let her know that). She just wants to start this whole process (surgery, chemo, radiation) so she can move forward with her life.
Her kids (young adults) are a mess - they just lost their father last year to cancer (my brother).
WH - 48
BS (me) - 50
Son - 25
Son - 17
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Reconciling or at least trying. We have reconciled through the A, but he still doesn't get it when it comes to p
Posts: 4473 | Registered: Nov 2007
Member # 25341
| Posted: 10:12 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
Sending strength and surgery mojo!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 23, 23, 19
M: 28 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 33
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Posts: 6014 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 17460
| Posted: 11:27 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
Covering her in prayer.
Please keep us posted!
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Posts: 21377 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Member # 21101
| Posted: 12:29 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
Mojo, Mojo, Mojo
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Posts: 12777 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Member # 14866
| Posted: 12:35 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
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Member # 26531
| Posted: 5:39 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25857 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 16024
| Posted: 9:11 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
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Member # 36134
| Posted: 9:16 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
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Member # 31528
| Posted: 9:21 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
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Member # 34353
| Posted: 9:24 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
Sending good thoughts
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
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Posts: 1849 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Member # 12041
| Posted: 9:35 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013|
Sending mojo and love.
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
Posts: 51534 | Registered: Sep 2006
Member # 19946
| Posted: 12:18 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013|
Envisioning a healthy outcome for her.
BS, 56 years
D after 20 years
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
Posts: 6650 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
Member # 37879
| Posted: 12:46 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013|
Sending Positive energy and strength!
Me: FWSO 38 He: FBSO 38 and my heart
Together 20 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
Posts: 605 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: by the sea with my love
Member # 10552
| Posted: 12:56 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013|
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15906 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 27325
| Posted: 5:34 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013|
Praying for your sil and her family.
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Member # 31094
| Posted: 6:42 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013|
Praying for your family...
Posts: 3446 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Member # 33128
| Posted: 10:11 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013|
Sending prayers and blessings over your family and SIL.
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
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