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trustagain (original poster member #16921) posted at 4:08 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
My SIL was just diagnosed with breast cancer. Her surgery (lumpectomy) is scheduled for Thursday. She went to visit my niece last week (her daughter) and while on the plane felt a new lump at her collar bone. Needless to say she didn't enjoy her trip too much. She did call the surgeon and told him what she felt and she has an appointment with him tomorrow.
Please say a prayer that they don't delay the surgery because of this new finding.
She is in panic mode (and so am I, but I won't let her know that). She just wants to start this whole process (surgery, chemo, radiation) so she can move forward with her life.
Her kids (young adults) are a mess - they just lost their father last year to cancer (my brother).
WH - 55
BS (me) - 57
Son - 31
Son - 24
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Dday Again - 13 years later....
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 4:12 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
((((SIL))))
Sending strength and surgery mojo!!
((((SIL))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 5:27 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Covering her in prayer.
Please keep us posted!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 6:29 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 6:35 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 11:39 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 3:11 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:16 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:21 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
(((SIL)))
Sending prayers
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 3:24 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 3:35 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 6:18 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Envisioning a healthy outcome for her.
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
cinnamongurl ( member #37879) posted at 6:46 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
(((SIL)))
Sending Positive energy and strength!
Me:FWS 42 He: FBS 43 and my heart
Together 22 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
CG
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 6:56 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 11:34 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Praying for your sil and her family.
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 12:42 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Praying for your family...
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 4:11 PM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Sending prayers and blessings over your family and SIL.
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
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