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User Topic: I miss him...
hurtbs
♀ 10866
Member # 10866
Concerned  Posted: 10:26 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been a month since xSO and I broke up. We broke up because I moved for a job - 1,500 miles away. Neither of us wanted to do the indefinite long distance dance. He had some things career wise he wants to explore - making his life really uncertin and crazy right now.

It's been 30 days since I've seen him. I spoke to him once for about 15 minutes.

I miss talking to him every day. Texting him. Joking with him. Kissing him. Being held...

I know the beak up was the right decision. Most of the time - 99.99% of the time, I'm okay. But there's always this... echo of him and his presence. I think "Oh, SO would like this" or "SO would love to go see x." Even grocery shopping I stop myself from buying things I know he would like to eat.

Anyway... just posting. Venting. Sharing.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


Posts: 15341 | Registered: Jun 2006
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry you are hurting. ((hugs))


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
foreverempty
♂ 34426
Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Hurtbs)))


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 673 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hurtbs)))


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It sucks so bad when it's just circumstances, because you don't get the "I'm better off without him" feelings to help you through the hard parts.

(((hurtbs)))


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13931 | Registered: Jul 2011
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Hurt)))))

Posts: 36773 | Registered: Mar 2011
cmego
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Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hurtbs)))


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4283 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hurtbs))) I'm sorry.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4714 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
hexed
♀ 19258
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((hurbs))

that just sucks. i'm sorry you're going through it :(


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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