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User Topic: Different Interests
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Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

During the courtship and history of our relationship. H's #1 love was beer. That was until I was going to leave him. He's recovering now and drinking is a no tolerance behavior.

Thing is, now that he's sober, we don't have the same interests. Actually, we never did. Total opposites. We can both "appreciate" the things the other likes, but that's about it.

Anyone else with a spouse who likes different things?? What do you do to bond or spend time together?? We do have 2 little ones, so that makes it harder to spend time together, alone.

Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.

Posts: 972 | Registered: Apr 2013
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Member # 24786
Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We like different sports but agree to sped time watching the other indulge in their passion from time to time. That means I will go to a sports tournament and cheer him on and viceversa.

Together -we both like watching films so go to the movies regularly and we usually both want to watch the same things.

why not try something new to both of you until you find something you both would be happy to try.... you could try fishing or salsa dancing or take a cookery course together...

BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now becomeć

Posts: 1622 | Registered: Jul 2009
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have a lot of different interests - we like different music, literature, media, but we have some important similarities. We're both interested in each other, and our values are similar (well, if you exclude her A...).

fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.

Posts: 16821 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
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