I've finally booked an appointment to get tested for ALL sti's next week and I'm scared shit.
Ex says he did not sleep with OW but I don't believe a word he says as initially after DDay he said that the affair started after my DD was born and that they only kissed three times. I now know that the A started whilst I was pregnant and I have since found out in an angry manner from him that they did more than kiss.
The thing is OW was raped when my ex first met her and who know's what she might have?
If it turns out I have caught something I really don't know what I am going to do.
Emotional abuse is one thing but having to deal with possible physical abuse too might tip me over the edge. I have two very young children to think of :(