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Topic: Is there a pillow out there for me?
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LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 |  Posted: 4:56 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 |     |
Why can't I find a great pillow? I have spent $15 - $50 and have yet to fall asleep loving my pillow! I am a side sleeper and I stay away from feather.
I saw the Eddie Bauer ones at Costco the other day and was tempted.
Anyone have a great pillow they recommend? I really don't want to steal them from nice hotels. 
Me: 44
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Posts: 3439 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
unfound
♀ 12802
Member # 12802 | | Posted: 6:32 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 | |
http://www.hotelpillow.com/pillows.html
Mr unfound got his through here and is happy happy. Pricey, but it was worth it for him to get a good nights sleep.
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Posts: 14938 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob |
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810 | | Posted: 9:18 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 | |
I have a high density foam pillow made by a company called Z by Malouf. Their website looks shady as shit, but I love the pillows I have from them. Love.
The only trouble I have had is that they don't have a medium loft pillow, so my chiropractor and I brainstormed and I got some craft foam cut to pillow size and layered 1/2 inch thick sheets under my low loft pillow until it was the right height. I have back problems though. 
They're also way cheaper on amazon than their own website (shop through Phil!)
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Posts: 14444 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
cinnamongurl
♀ 37879
Member # 37879 | | Posted: 1:32 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
A few yrs back I was in PT for my neck and shoulder. I'm also a side sleeper and my PT recommended a cervical pillow, but then she told me that its not just the pillow, but how you use it. She then gave me an entire session dedicated to how and why I should adjust my sleeping position.
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Posts: 611 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: by the sea with my love |
lost_in_toronto
♀ 25395
Member # 25395 | | Posted: 8:40 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I have the same pillow issues. I buy a new one every year or so, hoping to find the right one. I am also a side sleeper - so if you find the right one, please let me know!
Me: BS/41
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Posts: 1801 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore |
lynnm1947
♀ 15300
Member # 15300 | | Posted: 9:12 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I bought the cervical pillow from Tempurpedic--about $120 I think. I have neck issues so I need it, but I love it so much I have taken it on vacation with me.
Edited to add: Uh oh, there's that attachment to material things again! Jeezsh. [This message edited by lynnm1947 at 9:14 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)]
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
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Posts: 8747 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada |
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003 | | Posted: 9:17 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I'm a side sleeper too. I bought the Side Sleeper Pro pillow (amazon has it). It's in the shape of a candy cane and looks odd, but for me, it made a huge difference in comfort. I tried many pillows trying to find the right one...spent a lot of money too. The side sleeper was only $20.00.
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Posts: 17068 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston |
DragnHeart
♀ 32122
Member # 32122 | | Posted: 10:33 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I have yet to unpack it but I have a side sleep pillow I used while pregnant.
I got us two soft feather pillows some time ago. I found it was to soft for me so I end up folding it up or squishing it into a ball. Sometimes I hug it, other times I wake up to no pillow cause Its ended up on the floor in the middle of the night 
I am a restless sleeper.
Going to go unpack my side pillow now
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Posts: 11199 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada |
looking forward
♀ 25238
Member # 25238 | | Posted: 12:15 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Obus Forme pillows are great!
..and they're Canadian!
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Posts: 3226 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it |
lynnm1947
♀ 15300
Member # 15300 | | Posted: 12:19 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Mine is shaped like the ObusForme.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
Posts: 8747 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada |
lux444
♀ 30527
Member # 30527 | | Posted: 8:14 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I am a side sleeper too and the only pillow I can sleep with is a feather pillow but it can't be soft or spongy. I have to have a hard feather pillow and cannot find one anywhere. I cannot sleep on those contour pillows either I tried and ended giving it away.
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Posts: 118 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Never Never Land |
knightsbff
♀ 36853
Member # 36853 | | Posted: 8:43 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Www.mypillow.com
I am a side sleeper too, but my BH sleeps on both his back and his side. My entire family now have and love these pillows. I had neck/shoulder pain for years but no more.
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Posts: 1814 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA |
unbreak_my_heart
♀ 12145
Member # 12145 |  Posted: 4:11 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013 | |
I agree with knightbff! Bought two "my pillows" hubby and I both love them!
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