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Topic: Going to Sporting Events Alone?
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hurtbs
♀ 10866
Member # 10866 |  Posted: 9:27 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 |     |
So I live in Miami now and root for west coast teams. I want to go and see the Giants when they play the Marlins. I am having trouble finding someone who would come with me (tickets are pretty cheap). I'm thinking of just paying a higher price for a single, premium ticket and going to the game solo. But I don't know... is that weird?
I will go to art walks and movies alone, went to a happy hour alone, but not sure how I feel about a sporting event. Thoughts?
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TrustNoOne
♀ 16591
Member # 16591 |  Posted: 9:49 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 | |
I say GO FOR IT!
Look at it as though you're watching the game from your living room - with 50,000 like-minded friends  
Posts: 1371 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: San Diego |
phmh
♀ 34146
Member # 34146 | | Posted: 9:54 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 | |
Do it! I'd rather go alone because then I can keep score instead of having to chat :)
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heartbroken30
♀ 18437
Member # 18437 | | Posted: 10:46 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 | |
Go for it! I will be going to a concert by myself 
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Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 11:02 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 | |
As long as you have a can of mace or something so the drunken idiots you're sitting next to don't follow you out to the parking lot & cause trouble...
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Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 11:37 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 | |
I go everywhere alone  and I think a sporting event is the perfect place! It's conducive to talking to your neighbors (along with some good natured ribbing of the home team if you're so inclined... )
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♀ 31468
Member # 31468 | | Posted: 11:39 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013 | |
I think a sporting event would be far easier to go to alone than a happy hour, and you've already done that. With a sporting event there is constant entertainment, and it's easy to chat to people around you. If you enjoy the sport, you will have a blast!
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Whalers11
♀ 27544
Member # 27544 | | Posted: 6:29 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I go to hockey games by myself all the time. I actually find that less awkward than some other solo stuff...
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ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460 | | Posted: 10:23 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I'm thinking of just paying a higher price for a single, premium ticket
Oh, good Lord, don't do that! It's the Marlins for Pete's sake!
Get a ticket that gets you into the bottom bowl of the stadium and trust me, after about 3.5 innings, you'll be able to find a seat anywhere.
AJ's MOM
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Crescita
♀ 32616
Member # 32616 | | Posted: 10:51 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I see no harm in going alone, but I also recommend you check out some team forums. I’ve met some cool people through hockey forums, and they frequently get together for games, or share unused tickets.
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Posts: 3640 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun |
hurtbs
♀ 10866
Member # 10866 | | Posted: 1:11 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
AJ's mom - they police the better seats to force you to pay for them.
Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid
Posts: 15606 | Registered: Jun 2006 |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 3:43 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I'll be going to a Pirates game on Friday night all by myself.
My employer has a pair of tickets, and I got this game as a pat on the butt.
I'm going, and it will be a blast! I don't have to share my nachos with anyone!!
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