Update: my lawyer emailed me this: It will affect the amount of support. Will have to see what happens and why.
Should I be waiting for what his lawyer sends to mine which they asked for a continuance for financials or request that he subpeona his payroll and tax records?
He sent me this email yesterday:
Head's up - it's confirmed; I'm losing my job. Not sure on the date, but at a minimum a reduction in salary, and lesser role. Worst case is it will be out the door.
Last week we had a hearing on Thursday regarding termination of alimony and CS modification. I filed both motions because alimony was to end as it was only for 5 years. This is the first CS modification filed.
He did get a lawyer and asked for a 21 day continuance for financials so Aug. 22 we have another hearing.
Previously when he received the letter from my lawyer he started emailing me and calling me upset. It's here:http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=502513
I have a call into my lawyer but was wondering if any have dealt with this? How does this work in terms of changing CS since after my motion filed, he is asking for a financial continuance and allegedly losing his current position right now of all times? I find the timing odd. He says the company is going downhill fast. Out of curiosity, I looked at the company website and see they are going strong. They are a $100 million global company. They just rolled out a new product 3 weeks ago and 6 months ago opened up this huge testing facility next to the main headquarters. The company was rated #4 for most innovative company for the area it's located, which is a huge city in the Midwest last year.
Three months ago he bought a brand new Mercedes (I know he has payments). He came to visit the kids spring break here and my BIL and sis went to dinner( my BIL is still semi friends w/ him and my sis tags along. I really don't care that they do this) and he told them that he was possibly going to be managing the Asian market area or something along those lines.
I feel he's pissed off at me and now trying to punish me because I'm doing this.
SO-5 years together-he decided to end it by cheating too