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Topic: One Year Later......
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gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595 |  Posted: 6:13 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 |     |
Tomorrow marks one year since we went to court and signed the divorce papers.
All I can say is I'm still very RELIEVED !There's nothing I miss about my old life.
It's taken awhile to settle into my new life but I continue working on it.
I've started back into the workforce and trying to develope a retirement plan sucks. 
I'm not dating and doubtful if I will anytime soon.
I'm OK and that is good enough.
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20394 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be.. |
kiki1
♀ 37184
Member # 37184 |  Posted: 6:17 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
(((gma)))
Great post!!
stay happy 
Posts: 753 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york |
torn2bits
♀ 28376
Member # 28376 | | Posted: 6:38 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Oh gma, I am probably going to sign my papers in October.
I am so happy to hear that you are doing well after all that has past.
A shining example for us all.
Keep on that momentum!
Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending
Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest |
phmh
♀ 34146
Member # 34146 | | Posted: 7:17 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Congratulations!
I can't wait to see how much more progress you've made a year from today.
What a wonderful, bright future you have ahead of you!!!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Posts: 3640 | Registered: Dec 2011 |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 8:06 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Yay! 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 17975 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 10:04 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
oh, gma, you are way too good to be OK! I think you are fabulous!!
Congrats on the milestone.
Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 6018 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 10:29 PM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this
Posts: 20802 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY |
peridot
♀ 18334
Member # 18334 | | Posted: 12:18 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Has it already been a year? Glad to hear everything is going good for you.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Posts: 4823 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882 | | Posted: 5:56 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Good stuff!!!!
me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC
Divorced 1/17/2013
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2635 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA |
cmego
♀ 30346
Member # 30346 | | Posted: 6:05 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced
Posts: 4367 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South |
NaiveAgain
♀ 20849
Member # 20849 | | Posted: 6:49 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 15688 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio |
newnormal
♀ 21925
Member # 21925 | | Posted: 7:07 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
If SI had a like button, this tread would blow up
BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07
Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo
Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008 |
Too_Trusting
♀ 99
Member # 99 | | Posted: 9:18 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I'm right there with ya, gma! Kudos to EVERY one of us here that takes the knife to the stomach, forges a new and better life, and emerges stronger for the experience.
Collectively and individually, we ROCK here at SI!! 
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
Posts: 2525 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina |
gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595 | | Posted: 12:32 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Kudos to EVERY one of us here that takes the knife to the stomach, forges a new and better life, and emerges stronger for the experience. Our lives are forever changed by the choices of someone we trusted and loved. We can choose to have a permanent self pity party or take our lives back.
Building a new life is a slow struggle for me but so thankful I have the opportunity to reach my goal of being happy and content with life again. I look back a year ago and I have made some progress but not near to where I want to end up.
I have a dream of where I want to be in three years and I'm on the right path to get there. I do wish it would happen quicker but the wait and hard work will pay off when I look up out my front door and see the beautiful mountains in the future.
I've learned to be patient with myself and count the blessings I do have now. How fast those blessings can be taken away.
Also I have found that there is more than one path to being happy with myself and life. My post divorce path isn't smooth it has many bumps, pits, and steep hills but I will get where I'm suppose to be.
I have so much love in me (I thought I wasn't capable of love again) and hope someone's heart will open up to be able to accept it. Only the future knows if that will happen, for now I'm OK.
Hugs to all of us going through, recovering, and starting over.
Gma
[This message edited by gma56 at 6:52 PM, July 31st (Wednesday)]
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20394 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be.. |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 12:35 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
How fast those blessings can be taken away.
I've become hyper-aware of this in the last five years and I do believe it enhances our appreciation of what we do have now.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 17975 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
Survivor3512
♀ 37946
Member # 37946 | | Posted: 12:36 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
That is so awesome! Congratulations!!
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S. |
ExposedNiblet
♀ 30803
Member # 30803 | | Posted: 12:38 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
YOU are awesome!
Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)
Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.
Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada |
lostmommy
♀ 33440
Member # 33440 | | Posted: 12:38 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congratulations gma!
Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself
Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY |
Newlease
♀ 7767
Member # 7767 | | Posted: 1:13 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
You are doing just fine.
NL
Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.
Posts: 7830 | Registered: Aug 2005 |
LOSTinaBook
♀ 30309
Member # 30309 | | Posted: 1:52 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I'm glad to hear you're doing well, gma!
fBW-me, 26 (now 29)
xWH-he
Divorced.
S (H e) B E (L i e) V E (d).
Posts: 318 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: East Coast |
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