Me BW Him XSAWH
I posted a few days ago that I stumbled upon some info about xWH. Namely that he and OW 2 did *not* get married. He's with a new girlfriend. He lost his job (yet again - that's two jobs in two years). And overall, looks poorly.
Just posting on another thread, I realized that while he is not with OW2, he may be with "an" OW. His new GF is another one of those "female friends" of his. In fact, all but OW1 was a "just friends". Not sure if he was ever involved with this woman or if he just keeps women in the bull pen by "just being friends" with them....
Most importantly - it doesn't matter anymore. It really doesn't bother me. This is mostly just a "Hmmm... I wonder." thing.
I've really come to terms with the notion that he was never faithful to me - physically or emotionally. I also realize that I've done a lot of work on myself, healed, and moved forward from that relationship. I will never put myself second again. I can't say that I don't have the scars from that relationship - they're there. I think a part of me will always metaphorically "walk with a limp," but I also know that I can go forward.
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid