I don't post very often, but do try to look for topics and discussions similar to what's going on for me.
I have been OLD since January. First guy, email, phone conversation, spur of the moment burrito. He talked over me, cussed and was loud. It was two hours of my life I will never get back.
When I got in my car, I cried all the way home. I was mad at my WXH for putting me in this position.
By the time I got home, I felt much better. I was proud of myself for going.
A month later, a second guy, emails, phone calls, coffee and a burger.
When he hugged me like his sister and said thanks for coming, I knew. Sure enough, the next day I got the dreaded text....I don't think we're a good match. Never heard from him again.
30 days later, emails, text messages, coffee, coffee, dinner, all day coffee and lunch and a drink. shopping, etc and adult activities! Awesome. Friend with benefits.
Last guy, emails and texts and phone conversations, dinner and then lunch a couple of days later, and a day trip to San Francisco!
I have loved every minute of it! I have met new people, I've gotten off the couch, I have bought new clothes, I have learned that all the sexy stuff about me I've still got and know how to use!
And I know, that no matter if any of these relationships work out or not, that I'm going to be ok. That feeling is very liberating and freeing.
So, put yourself out there, be brave, be yourself. Tell your story, listen to theirs and know that they can't take away your birthday if they don't like you!
GO ME!