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Schilling (original poster member #39774) posted at 3:56 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2013
I do not listen to music often, but sometimes, I just need songs I can relate too.
I love all music.
Right now, I listen to:
Last Call - Lee Ann Womack
Repeat - David Guetta ft. Jessie J
Whatever It Takes - Lifehouse
What do you listen to when you need something that translates to what you are feeling and going through?
I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 4:46 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2013
Pink Floyd- Fearless
Govt. Mule- Banks of the Deep End
Widespread Panic- Pleas
These are some of my regular go to's. I cant listen to any of them without crying but they usually give me the strength to keep going
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 5:03 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2013
Songs that have helped me/that I have related to:
The Cave - Mumford and Sons
I Won't Give Up - Jason Mraz
Always - Switchfoot (This one has to do with the day of my son's birth. He is an OC, and I didn't find out until he was 7. This song helped me feel like that day was special again.)
Schilling (original poster member #39774) posted at 9:09 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2013
We Are Broken - Paramore
Clarity - Zedd
The Reason - Hoobastank
I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.
BrokenAngelWings ( member #28790) posted at 9:26 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2013
I have a handful of songs that I relate to...
Wide Awake- Katy Perry (is also my phone ringtone)
Gives You Hell - All American Rejects (this is the #1 song I listen to when I'm angry about the A)
Giddy On Up - Laura Bell Bundy (I listen to this one when I feel like I want revenge)
Gotta Be Somebody - Nickelback (when I'm feeling a little down and need a pick-up)
Then, there's a couple I listen to when I'm feeling good about where things are at with me and my FWH...
Feeling Way Too Damn Good - Nickelback
Love You Like A Love Song - Selena Gomez (sorry, I have a young daughter that watches a lot of Disney lol)
I could go on all day...every song I hear means something different to me now...
BW (me) 43
WH 42
DD13, DS11, DD8, DS5
Married 22 years
D-Day 1 3/15/10 (denial)
D-Day 2 5/11/10
D-Day 3 6/8/10 (TT)
1-week OEA
1-1/2 yr. PA
I didn't do it, I just have to get through it.
omgnome ( member #36888) posted at 10:45 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2013
Forever and Almost Always by Kate Voegele has sort of been my inspirational song lately.
Scubachick ( member #39906) posted at 7:15 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
Whatever it takes-Lifehouse
Broken-Lifehouse
Foolish-Ashanti
My husband sent me the song, Hard to Love, from Lee Brice. Which is perfect for a situation like this. So I sent him one back...Don't Cha Wish Your Girlfriend Was Hot Like Me from the Pussy Cat Dollls. He didn't think it was as funny as I did though. 
Scubachick ( member #39906) posted at 7:28 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
I forgot:
When i think about leaving-Kenny Chesney
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 8:41 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
I know this might be a weird one but
Love the way you lie...eminen/rhianna
When I want to escape I blast ..free falling by tom petty....I can block out everything when I hear that song
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Schilling (original poster member #39774) posted at 6:58 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
Ostrich80,
Love the way you lie is a song my partner and I both relate too a lot.
I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 7:09 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
Aww, so many.. But today?
Ugly Kid Joe- (I Hate) Everything About You
3Xthefool ( member #40113) posted at 7:11 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
Rumor Has It....Adele
Never Ever Ever Getting Back Together.....Taylor Swift
Tonight I'm Getting Over You....Carly Rae Jepsen
I Don't Care, I Love It....New Music Masters
Why Do You Wanna Break My Heart.....from Wayne's World motion picture soundtrack
I Wonder.....Chris Isaak
I Gotta Feeling.....Black Eyed Peas
Firework.....Katy Perry
Amazing Grace (various versions including one with celtic bagpipes)
The last three songs I listen to when I want a "pick me up" song that will get me focused on improving my self.
Schilling (original poster member #39774) posted at 7:12 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
Scubachick,
I really like Foolish, but I dislike the artist, wish someone would be a killer cover..!
I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.
TxsT ( member #39996) posted at 7:19 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
Before I was even aware of my WH 4 year A he gave me a song that has stuck in my heart. I have repeatedly asked him why he did this. At the time, his A was pretty much over and he was struggling to come to grips with what he had done and how he knew this would hurt me. He was a mess and the song was his way of telling me how badly he screwed up
Wanted.....Hunter Hays
T
[This message edited by TxsT at 1:19 PM, August 2nd (Friday)]
Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!
inmisery1 ( member #30905) posted at 7:24 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
Cheater, cheater where did you meet her?
Schilling (original poster member #39774) posted at 7:27 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
omgnome,
Wow...
Forever and Almost Always by Kate Voegele touched me so much. So relatable. I've never heard of this artist..
Wow...
I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.
shatteredheart7 ( member #39734) posted at 7:40 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
OMG! Scubachick! That is hilarious!!!
When I am feeling down I listen to a play list of songs that DH has sent to me since DDay. Music can be very healing!
God Gave Me You~ Blake Shelton
Heaven~ Bryan Adams
She's Everything~ Brad Paisley
But I do love you~Leanne Rhimes
Complete by Lila McCann
From this moment on~Shania Twain and Bryan White
And my favorite song from my Favorite band of all time
Heaven~ Warrant.
DH gave me tickets to a Warrant concert for my birthday, after we had filed for divorce. I asked him if I could give him a hug to thank him, next thing we both knew we were on the kitchen floor naked...and as they say, the rest is history. lol
Me~40
FWH~46
Married 8yrs
Together 11 1/2
Me~ 3 kids, 21,17,14
Him~no kids
A with a mutual "friend" for 2+yrs
He confessed 9/9/12
A was over 2/12
7/13~ Happier than we have been in yrs!
omgnome ( member #36888) posted at 5:09 PM on Monday, August 5th, 2013
Schilling,
I accidentally stumbled across that song on Pandora. It was on a channel from another artist I stumbled across Ingrid Michaelson. Yeah I know listening to some mellow female singers isn't very manly, but it really has helped with this whole situation.
Ingrid Michaelson also has an excellent song called "Be OK" which I think is the song that made me add her as a station.
betrayedbyluv ( new member #40165) posted at 7:54 PM on Monday, August 5th, 2013
Many of the ones already listed and also
Hurricane - Theory of a Deadman
Me - 42
WH - 38
Married 2/27/2005, together 13 years
DDay - 8/29/12, 1 PA at least 18 months, sexting with at least 3 women that I know about
1 child together, 2 children from my previous marriage
naivewife ( member #38375) posted at 8:44 PM on Monday, August 5th, 2013
Used to Be - Violent Femmes
Depressing, but so true.
D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath
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