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User Topic: Relatable Music
Schilling
♀ 39774
Member # 39774
Target  Posted: 9:56 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do not listen to music often, but sometimes, I just need songs I can relate too.

I love all music.

Right now, I listen to:
Last Call - Lee Ann Womack
Repeat - David Guetta ft. Jessie J
Whatever It Takes - Lifehouse

What do you listen to when you need something that translates to what you are feeling and going through?


I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: San Francisco
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pink Floyd- Fearless
Govt. Mule- Banks of the Deep End
Widespread Panic- Pleas

These are some of my regular go to's. I cant listen to any of them without crying but they usually give me the strength to keep going


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2734 | Registered: Aug 2012
LosferWords
♂ 30369
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Songs that have helped me/that I have related to:

The Cave - Mumford and Sons
I Won't Give Up - Jason Mraz
Always - Switchfoot (This one has to do with the day of my son's birth. He is an OC, and I didn't find out until he was 7. This song helped me feel like that day was special again.)


"I'm touched by the idea that when we do things that are useful and helpful -- collecting these shards of spirituality -- that we may be helping to bring about a healing." Leonard Nimoy

Posts: 10448 | Registered: Dec 2010
Schilling
♀ 39774
Member # 39774
Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We Are Broken - Paramore

Clarity - Zedd

The Reason - Hoobastank


I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: San Francisco
BrokenAngelWings
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Member # 28790
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a handful of songs that I relate to...

Wide Awake- Katy Perry (is also my phone ringtone)

Gives You Hell - All American Rejects (this is the #1 song I listen to when I'm angry about the A)

Giddy On Up - Laura Bell Bundy (I listen to this one when I feel like I want revenge)

Gotta Be Somebody - Nickelback (when I'm feeling a little down and need a pick-up)

Then, there's a couple I listen to when I'm feeling good about where things are at with me and my FWH...

Feeling Way Too Damn Good - Nickelback

Love You Like A Love Song - Selena Gomez (sorry, I have a young daughter that watches a lot of Disney lol)

I could go on all day...every song I hear means something different to me now...


BW (me) 39
WH 37
DD8, DS6, DD3, DS8mos
Married 17 years
D-Day 1 3/15/10 (denial)
D-Day 2 5/11/10
D-Day 3 6/8/12
1-week OEA
1-1/2 yr. PA

I didn't do it, I just have to get through it.


Posts: 353 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: South Carolina
omgnome
♂ 36888
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forever and Almost Always by Kate Voegele has sort of been my inspirational song lately.


BS

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Scubachick
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Default  Posted: 1:15 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whatever it takes-Lifehouse
Broken-Lifehouse
Foolish-Ashanti

My husband sent me the song, Hard to Love, from Lee Brice. Which is perfect for a situation like this. So I sent him one back...Don't Cha Wish Your Girlfriend Was Hot Like Me from the Pussy Cat Dollls. He didn't think it was as funny as I did though.


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Scubachick
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I forgot:

When i think about leaving-Kenny Chesney


Posts: 945 | Registered: Jul 2013
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 2:41 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know this might be a weird one but
Love the way you lie...eminen/rhianna

When I want to escape I blast ..free falling by tom petty....I can block out everything when I hear that song


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5347 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Schilling
♀ 39774
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ostrich80,

Love the way you lie is a song my partner and I both relate too a lot.


I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: San Francisco
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aww, so many.. But today?

Ugly Kid Joe- (I Hate) Everything About You


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven

Posts: 2805 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida
3Xthefool
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rumor Has It....Adele
Never Ever Ever Getting Back Together.....Taylor Swift
Tonight I'm Getting Over You....Carly Rae Jepsen
I Don't Care, I Love It....New Music Masters
Why Do You Wanna Break My Heart.....from Wayne's World motion picture soundtrack
I Wonder.....Chris Isaak
I Gotta Feeling.....Black Eyed Peas
Firework.....Katy Perry
Amazing Grace (various versions including one with celtic bagpipes)

The last three songs I listen to when I want a "pick me up" song that will get me focused on improving my self.


Posts: 59 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: New York City
Schilling
♀ 39774
Member # 39774
Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Scubachick,

I really like Foolish, but I dislike the artist, wish someone would be a killer cover..!


I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: San Francisco
TxsT
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Before I was even aware of my WH 4 year A he gave me a song that has stuck in my heart. I have repeatedly asked him why he did this. At the time, his A was pretty much over and he was struggling to come to grips with what he had done and how he knew this would hurt me. He was a mess and the song was his way of telling me how badly he screwed up

Wanted.....Hunter Hays

T

[This message edited by TxsT at 1:19 PM, August 2nd (Friday)]


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
inmisery1
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cheater, cheater where did you meet her?

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jan 2011
Schilling
♀ 39774
Member # 39774
Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

omgnome,

Wow...

Forever and Almost Always by Kate Voegele touched me so much. So relatable. I've never heard of this artist..

Wow...


I am 26(Bgf). He is 36 (Wbf).
On Again, Off Again - 10 years.
Not Married. No Kids.
D-Day: Too many to list/ remember.
Trying to Reconcile.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: San Francisco
shatteredheart7
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG! Scubachick! That is hilarious!!!

When I am feeling down I listen to a play list of songs that DH has sent to me since DDay. Music can be very healing!

God Gave Me You~ Blake Shelton
Heaven~ Bryan Adams
She's Everything~ Brad Paisley
But I do love you~Leanne Rhimes
Complete by Lila McCann
From this moment on~Shania Twain and Bryan White

And my favorite song from my Favorite band of all time
Heaven~ Warrant.
DH gave me tickets to a Warrant concert for my birthday, after we had filed for divorce. I asked him if I could give him a hug to thank him, next thing we both knew we were on the kitchen floor naked...and as they say, the rest is history. lol


Me~40
FWH~46
Married 8yrs
Together 11 1/2
Me~ 3 kids, 21,17,14
Him~no kids
A with a mutual "friend" for 2+yrs
He confessed 9/9/12
A was over 2/12
7/13~ Happier than we have been in yrs!

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jul 2013
omgnome
♂ 36888
Member # 36888
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Schilling,
I accidentally stumbled across that song on Pandora. It was on a channel from another artist I stumbled across Ingrid Michaelson. Yeah I know listening to some mellow female singers isn't very manly, but it really has helped with this whole situation.

Ingrid Michaelson also has an excellent song called "Be OK" which I think is the song that made me add her as a station.


BS

Posts: 215 | Registered: Sep 2012
betrayedbyluv
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many of the ones already listed and also

Hurricane - Theory of a Deadman


Me - 42
WH - 38
Married 2/27/2005, together 13 years
DDay - 8/29/12, 1 PA at least 18 months, sexting with at least 3 women that I know about
1 child together, 2 children from my previous marriage

Posts: 30 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: United States
naivewife
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Used to Be - Violent Femmes
Depressing, but so true.


D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath

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