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User Topic: 25th anniversary :o(
♀ 39996
Member # 39996
Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


In just over a month, my 25th wedding anniversary will be upon us. Unfortunately it is one day before the first year anniversary of our Dday and also happens to be on 9/11. I had been looking forward to our big anniversary for the last few years but now I am not so sure it will be a happy day.

Even though my WS and I are well on our way to a mutual and happy reconciliation, this year of post Dday firsts has been especially hard on me. We have devised a great strategy for dealing with triggers but this day represents so much more pain then a single issue.

How did/do you guys handle these touchy days where feelings are uncertain and old memories can and do seem to surface on the drop of a hat? I want to present myself with confidence but know this could be hard to achieve on a day that brought so much hurt and pain into my world a year ago


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
♀ 37107
Member # 37107
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There was a post by Blobette just a little while ago about her 25th anniversary, you can find it here:

I know how you feel, our 25th is coming up in a few months, and I am quite nervous about how to handle it... I too was really looking forward to it for ages, but now... hmmmm, not so sure....

BS 49
Together 32 yrs, M 28 years
2 daughters 27yo(married with 2 children) & 21yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 1310 | Registered: Oct 2012
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