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17yrs married and gone:-(

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strawblond30 posted 7/31/2013 19:41 PM

Well he is gone and officially has every weekend booked with dates with other women. I'm still hurting why was I never good enough to spend extra money to fix a door in our house or buy me something . I left with nothing but debt & house needs more work then it's worth. While he is debt free & 30 grand in savings. Makes almost double monthly. I'm way to nice but when will I get to be happy???

nowiknow23 posted 7/31/2013 19:42 PM

Honey, you are not the one who came up short. You were and are "good enough" - he failed you, not the other way around.

((((strawblond))))

gma56 posted 7/31/2013 19:56 PM

Nik is right, you didn't fail anything.

I also walked away with less than I could have fought for but there is a life on the other side waiting for you.It may not be a perfect life but it is yours and can be damn good.
Hugs
Gma

ladies_first posted 8/1/2013 17:03 PM

I left with nothing but debt & house needs more work then it's worth. While he is debt free & 30 grand in savings.

Assume nothing! Where are you in your divorce settlement?

That's why mother's facing divorcing are encouraged to "lawyer up". You need someone trained in law to pursue an equitable settlement. With 3 children, there will be child support, correct?

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