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User Topic: down playing WW's As
♂ 33296
Member # 33296
Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I drift to an from this site.

Sometimes when something is bothering me I write a post and never submit it. I think of the other stories here I tell myself it's not that bad.

At least she didn't give me a std. At least she didn't have a baby by one of the OM. At least she didn't spend a lot of money (on second thought at least she did not spend 5 digit lots of money). At least we did not D and I see my kids daily. At least we were not virgins and vowed to be with only each other.

Me: BH (49)
Her: WWx4 (possible ONSs while drunk). Lied about job, worked as a stripper instead of hostess at Cracker Barrel (41)
Married: 15
Together: 20
Children: 2 sons, 2 daughters

Who dares, wins

Posts: 154 | Registered: Sep 2011
♀ 30024
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What she did is awful. You didn't deserve it. Yes, I have said some of the same things about FWH's affair as you have said. The thing is, it doesn't matter. A betrayal is a betrayal is a betrayal. We all feel the same, just some of us have to deal with other or more shit than some others, but it is still a betrayal. No better, no worse.

Please don't ever feel like you shouldn't post because your situation isn't as "bad". It helps to post, to vent, to talk to people who "get" it.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4-7yrs. /fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

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