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bob1965 (original poster member #33296) posted at 2:52 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
I drift to an from this site.
Sometimes when something is bothering me I write a post and never submit it. I think of the other stories here I tell myself it's not that bad.
At least she didn't give me a std. At least she didn't have a baby by one of the OM. At least she didn't spend a lot of money (on second thought at least she did not spend 5 digit lots of money). At least we did not D and I see my kids daily. At least we were not virgins and vowed to be with only each other.
Me: BH (49)
Her: WWx4 (possible ONSs while drunk). Lied about job, worked as a stripper instead of hostess at Cracker Barrel (41)
Married: 15
Together: 20
Children: 2 sons, 2 daughters
Who dares, wins
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 3:12 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
What she did is awful. You didn't deserve it. Yes, I have said some of the same things about FWH's affair as you have said. The thing is, it doesn't matter. A betrayal is a betrayal is a betrayal. We all feel the same, just some of us have to deal with other or more shit than some others, but it is still a betrayal. No better, no worse.
Please don't ever feel like you shouldn't post because your situation isn't as "bad". It helps to post, to vent, to talk to people who "get" it.
(((bob1965)))
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
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