I hear ya housefull,
Everything we have over the past 24 years is because i held it together, not him, financially while i put up with the emotional abuse from NPD WH.
SUCKS SUCKS SUCKS because our house has been on the market for 2 months after not being able to pay mortgage for 6. Joins a bikie gang for his grandiosa fix, gets stabbed in the back, loses his job.
60,000 of company debt put on the mortgage thanks to my kind heart.
Breaks NC with OW still lies, cheats, lazy, irresponsible, belittling, no empathy, no "what needx to be oaud honey" did not give a shit.
I had had enough. Ended the marriage based on no remorse, not trying, not doing a damn thing and all he could say was that he did nothing wrong. Comes around a few days after i booted him saying he is upset and lonely and he was having a good day the day i booted him out and that i ruined it.
Gotta love the projection, blameshifting and all the narc behaviour. I am now left with no job, no money, he doesn't give me a cent now that he has a job again, trying to keep the house looking special so someone will buy it before the bank takes it and an autistic son who cannot process what the hell is going on.
At least he doesnt witness the physical violence that had recently started anymore.
They are a piece of work hey? The blood sucking freak now resides in a waterfront fully furnished apartment with famous OW that he sniffed out a week after i sent his upset, lonely arse a packin..........
So hard to get your head around, but they are empty shells. Sad, pathetic, useless piecesnof shit in my book to just disguard their families this way.
Boils on the buttnof humanity and i truly, deeply believe in karma!!!!!!!!
Be strong. Focus on all the crap that you dont have inside the 4 walls where you live.......take comfortnin knowing you are lovable and he is not.
You will have a much happier and brighter future and he NEVER EVER will.
Look toward the sun and your shadows will always fall behind you.