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User Topic: a year ago today
seekingtomorrow
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Member # 39068
Default  Posted: 4:43 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

its one year today since this nightmare started. this is the day I found out about 1 of the ow. i then had to endure 3 months of false reconciliation before the rest of the story came out,,,, feeling heavy today,, heavy and tired. have planned a day away from him today,, going to get my hair cut as it is very overdue and having lunch with the only friend who knows.


D-day 1 august 1st 2012
D-day 2 October 31st 2012
D-day 3 September 10th 2015

Posts: 100 | Registered: Apr 2013
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:45 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seekingtomorrow,

Antiversaries are tough, especially the first one.

I hope you have some peace today. I'm glad you are spending some time on yourself and with a good friend.

Hugs,
AN


“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 55011 | Registered: Sep 2007
mchercheur
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Member # 37735
Default  Posted: 5:51 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((seekingtomorrow)))


Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 27+ years/Together 28+ years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

Posts: 2400 | Registered: Dec 2012
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Seekingtomorrow)))


BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012
seekingtomorrow
♀ 39068
Member # 39068
Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thankyou,,, all in all I hasn't been as bad as I thought it would be, it was a relief to talk freely about it all which I rarely get to do as so few people know and the nice new top and hair cut combated this mornings initial crisis of confidence which has bee an issue since d-day.


D-day 1 august 1st 2012
D-day 2 October 31st 2012
D-day 3 September 10th 2015

Posts: 100 | Registered: Apr 2013
Yakamishi
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Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((seekingtomorrow)))

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