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seekingtomorrow (original poster member #39068) posted at 10:43 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
its one year today since this nightmare started. this is the day I found out about 1 of the ow. i then had to endure 3 months of false reconciliation before the rest of the story came out,,,, feeling heavy today,, heavy and tired. have planned a day away from him today,, going to get my hair cut as it is very overdue and having lunch with the only friend who knows.
D-day 1 august 1st 2012
D-day 2 October 31st 2012
D-day 3 September 10th 2015
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:45 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
Seekingtomorrow,
Antiversaries are tough, especially the first one.
I hope you have some peace today. I'm glad you are spending some time on yourself and with a good friend.
Hugs,
AN
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 11:51 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 2:13 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
seekingtomorrow (original poster member #39068) posted at 8:49 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013
thankyou,,, all in all I hasn't been as bad as I thought it would be, it was a relief to talk freely about it all which I rarely get to do as so few people know and the nice new top and hair cut combated this mornings initial crisis of confidence which has bee an issue since d-day.
D-day 1 august 1st 2012
D-day 2 October 31st 2012
D-day 3 September 10th 2015
Yakamishi ( member #38230) posted at 2:40 AM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:50 AM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
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