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better4me posted 8/1/2013 07:48 AM

Okay, this doesn't come close to the "Cheesy Nut Man" story but I need to get it off my chest.

Dude, when we meet after work at 6:30 and the waitress asks if we want to see a menu in addition to our beer order, don't say "No thanks" and then add belatedly "Unless, you want something Better4me". Really? I was supposed to eat something before meeting you? Really?

Dude, your concerns about your student loans, or how much beer costs, or complaints about your ex wife (divorced 21 years ago ex wife) are not first meeting conversation topics designed to endear you to me.

And when I end the date after 90 minutes (because I'm hungry and am going to go get myself a taco somewhere dammit!) and I say "It was nice to meet you", don't say "Really?" in response to that statement. You knew, didn't you Dude, you knew...

Was it bad that I didn't send a "nice to meet you " text?

Back to the drawing board!

wildbananas posted 8/1/2013 09:18 AM

Note to self - eat pecsn nuts wrapped in American cheese before going on a date. Check.

Next!

EvenKeel posted 8/1/2013 09:21 AM

Note to self - eat pecsn nuts wrapped in American cheese before going on a date. Check.

I would of definitely expect we would be eating if someone set the time for 630 after work.

nutmegkitty posted 8/1/2013 09:23 AM

6:30 is definitely an eating time, even if it's only apps.

Next!

asurvivor posted 8/1/2013 11:24 AM

If I'm on a date and it's time to eat and my date doesn't want anything and I'm starving, I order something to eat. I would just say, "if I'm drinking beer, I better eat something" and order some nachos, wings, cotton candy, raisin brand, a strawberry Snow cone, whatever"...If someone doesn't understand you need some food then...What am I missing. Oh, and if they try to have a wing (which they will) just stick their hand with a fork and have them continue their incessant talk about themselves for your ninety minutes of fun and walk out with some bbq sauce on your lips.

nowiknow23 posted 8/1/2013 12:52 PM

(because I'm hungry and am going to go get myself a taco somewhere dammit!)
Did you hit Taco Time? Because that's totally what I would have done.

better4me posted 8/1/2013 18:10 PM

Addendum:
I did send a text this morning. "Thank you for the conversation and for the beer last night. I don't think that we are a match. I wish you the best of luck!"

His reply "NP. Same to you"

So we're cool. (And apparently typing "no problem" is too much of an effort.)

nowiknow23 posted 8/1/2013 18:36 PM

risingfromashes posted 8/2/2013 07:25 AM

Do you think he is still available? I am in the state of mind where I could easily replace food with alcohol. It is an either/or situation right?

better4me posted 8/2/2013 08:56 AM

risingfromashes I think there are a few more nutrients in tacos than in beer.

CheaterMagnet posted 8/2/2013 21:59 PM

Did you hit Taco Time? Because that's totally what I would have done.

Oh God. I miss Taco Time SO MUCH!!!!!! Crisp beef burritos. Soft Natural Tacos. Mexi fries.

Now I haz a sad. And a hungry!

brokenhearted475 posted 8/3/2013 04:27 AM

Ok I was feeling pretty crappy until I read this. Now I'm rotflmao! Just sayin! I love u people.

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