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User Topic: Told his parents...
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They know about his affair I had to tell them things have not changed and I have filed for divorce.
They understood clearly upset his mom asked if we have been to counseling.we did try after dday for about six weeks maybe 8 lied to the counselor said she was just a friend and didn't sleep with her. Just touching and kissing LIAR....
Didn't do anything the counselor wanted us to do I tried he acted like he was not interested in getting things back.
So it's been 3 yrs still nothing has changed...he's seeing her found a card in his truck from her about love and missing u can't wait to be together.
Made me sick.
I showed them the card took pics of it
They didn't say much...
I didn't want to hurt them but they need to know I'm not just makin stuff up.
He is still having an affair with her.
Sorry this is long.
Just needed to get this out.
Thanks for listening.

I don't know what I'm doing
but I know what I'm not doing

Posts: 1301 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Illinois
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Must be a rough time right now, FogHater, but it seems like you're doing what you need to. Even after all the crap, I am sure D in not where you hoped to find yourself. There are better things waiting for you out there, and maybe now you can really begin to find them. Hugs.

Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married Over 30 years w/ grown kids
Dday 1: 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

Posts: 873 | Registered: Apr 2008
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Foghater))) I'm sorry you are going through this.

Me: BS, Him: WH
8/08: EA with former neighbor (OW#1)
1/13/13: EA/Sexting with Coworker#1 (OW#2)
6/16/13: Sexting with Coworker#2 (OW#3)

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