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User Topic: broken promise
♀ 40047
Member # 40047
Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He did it again after promising me it would stop. I'm about to go off the deep end. He told me he removed yahoo from his computer I checked and he just removed the shortcut. found a conversation soliciting someone to online chat with and someone close to "play" with. I told him he must think I'm an idiot. I'm not stupid just to trusting. He removed yahoo and tagged from his computer. how do I know he is not still doing it?

Posts: 2 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: ca
♀ 36711
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry.
He overestimated his ability to hide his BS and underestimated your intelligence to figure it out.
My WH always thought he was smarter than everyone else that he was tricking too.
It doesn't seem to work out well for people who do this, but others (like us) get hurt in the process.

D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
♂ 30079
Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Key logger. If he is willing to lie to you about this he is not remorseful and ready to be in your relationship. You should see a lawyer

BS- Me (43)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

Posts: 2071 | Registered: Nov 2010
♀ 28622
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Protect yourself. Whatever actions you need to take to protect yourself, now is the time. He has shown you who he is, believe him.

If he wants to be seen as someone else, or someone who can be trusted and believed, then the path FOR HIM to do that is his responsibility.


Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 7052 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
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