So he told me last night he will call the counselor and we will go to marriage counseling. I do know about false recovery and so I am 1% optimistic.
One of the things I said 2 nights ago to him was, what would you do if our roles were reversed. He didn't answer me but I hope it got his mind churning.
I am feeling stronger and seeing my power. Now I can see if this is what I want.
Btw, he deleted all the content off his swinger profile but he couldn't figure how to delete the account. The certain are there but his pictures are gone. Choices are easy to make, even the most difficult of choices are made in the span of a heart beat. It is coming to terms with the results of these choices which can take a very long time indeed.
At least this fence is mine to own and