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Topic: Anniversary

doesitgetbetter
♀ 18429
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Posted: 2:29 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013

So today is our anniversary, and it's one of the special numbers that most people celebrate. We are putting off our celebration for a couple of weeks until the kids are in school so we can have some alone time, but today I wake up to a note on the mirror that reads

"I love you so very much. I am so grateful to have you by my side. I wouldn't be anywhere near where I am in life today if it weren't for you. You truly are my better half. Happy anniversary!"

I'm so grateful that HE is half the man he has grown to be throughout this mess, otherwise I wouldn't be here. It's a good day, with lots of good days behind and ahead.

DDay - Dec '07
Me - BS
Him - turns out he's a SAWH
Us - ?????
May 18, 2010 - I forgave him fully!
D-day 2 July 4, 2015, status, working harder than ever before, trying to fix something we thought we already had. It's SO hard!

Posts: 4118 | Registered: Feb 2008

TxsT
♀ 39996
Member # 39996

Posted: 2:36 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013

THANK YOU for sharing that. I will be facing my 25th in just over a month and I am hoping I have as good a day as you. A gesture like that from your husband would make my heart sing. It just fired up my desire to keep feeding the cole into the "I know I can, I know I can" train engine

[This message edited by TxsT at 2:36 PM, August 1st (Thursday)]

Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN

5454real
♂ 37455
Member # 37455

Posted: 2:37 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013

Yay!!!
Crap, wanted to post a celebratory fireworks heart for you! No pics today however.

You give me hope!!!

Our 10th is in about two weeks. 18 months after D-day. Still sorting.

Definitely want to get to where you guys are!

Thank you!

[This message edited by 5454real at 2:49 PM, August 1st (Thursday)]

BH 53, WW 44
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 11 Ours, DGS 5, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 4507 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest

LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369

Posted: 2:50 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013

Posts: 24534 | Registered: Dec 2010

SoVerySadNow
♀ 36711
Member # 36711

Posted: 2:52 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013

Congrats!

Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida

doesitgetbetter
♀ 18429
Member # 18429

Posted: 3:02 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013

Thank you for all the celebrating! We aren't actually doing anything fabulous for our anniversary right now, but we are taking a belated anniversary cruise in the spring with an extended stay in Florida before the cruise. It's our "once in a lifetime" vacation with our kids before they get too old to be seen in public with us. LOL

So we'll probably just do dinner for our anniversary right now, and that's ok.... the cruise is on my bucket list, and parasailing is on his, so we'll knock out two things at once while making amazing memories to last a lifetime.

Here's to happy anniversaries for all of us in the wake of our pain, even if the happiness is fleeting or minimal because of that pain. It WILL get better, there IS life after infidelity, and we DO deserve happiness.

Posts: 4118 | Registered: Feb 2008

OptimisticWife
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Member # 36587

Posted: 3:10 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013

Congratulations!! Hope you have a great day. I'm sure your cruise wil be amazing too! All the best

Posts: 191 | Registered: Aug 2012

TxsT
♀ 39996
Member # 39996

Posted: 3:54 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013

High 5 Does....I love the mantra at the end of your post. I'll let you know how mine goes when it gets here.

Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN

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