i just dont get it, things between us were good, sex life was great and we were in the process of building a new home. Our son was all grown up and was on his own, daughter was a teenager, so almost had an empty nest when the focus would be shifting back to US.
He had a good paying job and all was good. Then he cheated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We struggled years ago when son was little, but we got through all of that, so I am really having a hard time trying to find where this all went to hell. I know this is all on him, but I just trying to figure it all out, I know I probably never will
None of this makes any sense to me, was he always this man and I just didnt see it, he has destroyed everything
Our son has a son of his own now, and he is 5 months old and WH has never seen him, doesnt have any contact with son at all, and very little contact with our daughter. She wanted him to come to a sports event she was participating in back in February and it was in the city he lives in now with the OW, but he never showed up, told me it was because OW wanted to go too.
He is such a damn coward, even told me that he wishes she would do what I did, which was kick him out, well that isnt going to happen, she got it too good with him there, using him to the fullest
I will never understand how or why, so i guess i just have to accept that