Ok, he very well could be a POS but.... having dealt with a psycho exWW, I would find out for sure. He might be a good guy with a nut job for an ex.
My FWSO's ex broke into his apartment, after they were divorced 2 years - she decided she wanted him back( a pattern I came to find out). She stole his address book and called every female in it & told them to keep away from her "husband"
She even called his lawyer, at 3am, and told him that they wanted to reverse the divorce WHEEE!!!!! His lawyer called her lawyer and his reply "Welcome to my world"
So before you write him totally off, if he is a good guy, easy enough to find out.
[This message edited by UndecidedinMA at 5:43 PM, August 2nd (Friday)]