Nearly Exh is the type of person who can't stand to be wrong -it simply doesn't exist for him-and much more so, can't stand to be told
he is wrong.
This is true for anyone in his life, for no one is immune...some of the job losses have been because of this-I think the narcissism-and it happened at work places over the years.
I remember him coming home in a livid state or making fun of people who challenged him by asking about a decision he made or being more bold than that.
This apparently was one of my "mistakes"-that I had the nerve to ask "why" over the years.
Anyway, when I am stronger, this humors me because he does make mistakes, and one of them is to sometimes mis-text, so that I get OW's messages. This happened again today, and I am angry because it caused me an emotional trigger.
For once I didn't reply when I was in tears, but waited for the anger to come back. I couldn't help it and I did write back some time later and just said "I am not amused."
It also highlights how different we are, because I simply cannot imagine texting a man not my husband. Even if I was not in the physical condition I'm in, I just don't think it's appropriate-even though we are divorcing, still I would wait.
Just a vent or something to share.
You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.