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Tear posted 8/4/2013 01:19 AM

its been 8 months since dday and yesterday we found out our baby has died . waiting for the miscarriage to happen.......what did i do to deserve this much pain in such a little time frame? i could fill an ocean with the amount of tears i have cried these past eight months......i needed this baby so much but now it is gone..... i feel like a shell of the person i once was......how much pain can one person handle?

noescape posted 8/4/2013 01:30 AM

:'(

((((Tear))))

blakesteele posted 8/4/2013 01:31 AM

((((tear))))((((tear)))))

blakesteele posted 8/4/2013 02:11 AM

I am so sad to read this post.

Honestly, I have difficulty dealing with the hurt from my pretty textbook betrayal...so I certainly don't have the words to comfort you other then to say I am praying for you and that peace will find its way to you tonight.

I am sure more intelligent people will post to you...but I see it is 2 am where I am at and didn't think many people are on at this hour...and I felt compelled to try to comfort you...try and help you for a few moments anyway. Do you have a counselor working with you guys? a pastor you can call? There are prayer hotlines that are free.

I talk a lot when I am anxious...thus the longish post with not much content.

God be with you.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 2:16 AM, August 4th (Sunday)]

ItsaClimb posted 8/4/2013 02:16 AM

I'm so, so sorry Tear {hugs}

Nature_Girl posted 8/4/2013 02:34 AM

(((HUGS))) I am so sorry. There are no words to convey how much.

TemporalReset posted 8/4/2013 02:38 AM

Tear,

I have no words to describe how sorry I am. If I could take any of your pain on me I would. Just know that there are people thinking about you right now and sending you love.

I know absolutely nothing about you but if you need someone to talk to, PM me, I am at work until 5:30 am est with absolutely nothing to do.

TR

Ostrich80 posted 8/4/2013 03:01 AM

I'm so very sorry for your loss Tear.

brainless twit posted 8/4/2013 03:08 AM

Praying that you receive comfort... I can't imagine and I am so, so sorry.

((((((((Tear))))))))

Bluebird26 posted 8/4/2013 05:14 AM

I am so sorry.

I know it is so hard but try and take care of yourself, one day at time.

((tear))

monarchwings posted 8/4/2013 06:28 AM

I am so sorry for your loss of your sweet baby. I have have lost a child. I understand the pain so I will share in your grief. I remember it hurting so bad that my heart felt like it was going to break open. I have since learned that death is indiscriminate. Time will heal and you will get through this prayers to you....

nomistakeaboutit posted 8/4/2013 06:29 AM

I am so sorry.

Chefj9 posted 8/4/2013 07:40 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you.

authenticnow posted 8/4/2013 07:45 AM

(((Tear)))

cayc posted 8/4/2013 07:51 AM

((((Tear))))

Walking posted 8/4/2013 07:58 AM

I am so sorry for you. Truly. I hope you have found a good therapist. These set backs are the heavy lifting in life so don't try and cope alone, or only with a partner you may still have trust issues with. Surround yourself with as much support as you can get. Your OB/Gyn doctor may be able to recommend a good loss counselor. Hugs from afar.

5454real posted 8/4/2013 08:03 AM

condolences and prayers.

(((Tear)))

Take2 posted 8/4/2013 08:08 AM

Hugs and Prayers (((Tear))). I am so very sorry.

jo2love posted 8/4/2013 08:10 AM

(((Tear)))

I am so sorry.

Kajem posted 8/4/2013 08:23 AM

(((((((Tear)))))))

I am so sorry. Please keep posting.

Their are several of us on this site who have Angel Babies. There is nothing worse than feeling you are alone in dealing with this. We are here for you.

Hugs,

K