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its been 8 months since dday and yesterday we found out our baby has died . waiting for the miscarriage to happen.......what did i do to deserve this much pain in such a little time frame? i could fill an ocean with the amount of tears i have cried these past eight months......i needed this baby so much but now it is gone..... i feel like a shell of the person i once was......how much pain can one person handle?

:'(

((((Tear))))

((((tear))))((((tear)))))

I am so sad to read this post.

Honestly, I have difficulty dealing with the hurt from my pretty textbook betrayal...so I certainly don't have the words to comfort you other then to say I am praying for you and that peace will find its way to you tonight.

I am sure more intelligent people will post to you...but I see it is 2 am where I am at and didn't think many people are on at this hour...and I felt compelled to try to comfort you...try and help you for a few moments anyway. Do you have a counselor working with you guys? a pastor you can call? There are prayer hotlines that are free.

I talk a lot when I am anxious...thus the longish post with not much content.

God be with you.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 2:16 AM, August 4th (Sunday)]

I'm so, so sorry Tear {hugs}

(((HUGS))) I am so sorry. There are no words to convey how much.

Tear,

I have no words to describe how sorry I am. If I could take any of your pain on me I would. Just know that there are people thinking about you right now and sending you love.

I know absolutely nothing about you but if you need someone to talk to, PM me, I am at work until 5:30 am est with absolutely nothing to do.

TR

I'm so very sorry for your loss Tear.

Praying that you receive comfort... I can't imagine and I am so, so sorry.

((((((((Tear))))))))

I am so sorry.

I know it is so hard but try and take care of yourself, one day at time.

((tear))

I am so sorry for your loss of your sweet baby. I have have lost a child. I understand the pain so I will share in your grief. I remember it hurting so bad that my heart felt like it was going to break open. I have since learned that death is indiscriminate. Time will heal and you will get through this prayers to you....

I am so sorry.

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you.

(((Tear)))

((((Tear))))

I am so sorry for you. Truly. I hope you have found a good therapist. These set backs are the heavy lifting in life so don't try and cope alone, or only with a partner you may still have trust issues with. Surround yourself with as much support as you can get. Your OB/Gyn doctor may be able to recommend a good loss counselor. Hugs from afar.

condolences and prayers.

(((Tear)))

Hugs and Prayers (((Tear))). I am so very sorry.

(((Tear)))

I am so sorry.

(((((((Tear)))))))

I am so sorry. Please keep posting.

Their are several of us on this site who have Angel Babies. There is nothing worse than feeling you are alone in dealing with this. We are here for you.

Hugs,

K