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movingforward13 (original poster member #38405) posted at 11:56 AM on Monday, August 5th, 2013
So STBXH has our son for a few days in the state he resides in. Yesterday was the only day in the last week that he did not contact me. I have heard from him every single day, either about our son or my birthday. Well, now he is sending me pictures of my son AND him together, that I did not ask for.
Is this the "Hoover" chapter in the way ward manual? Divorce is filed and will be final 11/13/13 as long as he doesn't contest anything.
Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:04 PM on Monday, August 5th, 2013
Its either in the Hoover section or the "Hey look - we're friends, see? I'm not such a fucktard! I'm a good guy!".
Let him knock himself out - no response, no engaging, nothing.
In my experience 'nice' usually means some massive fuckery is being thrown my way soon - very soon.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
LadyQ ( member #32847) posted at 1:15 PM on Monday, August 5th, 2013
Strong has excellent perspective here. My kids are older, so when their dad sends cutesy little texts about what they do, I read them and move on. No response needed as there was no legitimate question asked.
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
Housefulloflove ( member #38458) posted at 4:12 PM on Monday, August 5th, 2013
I think it's a part of the "Look at me! I'm such a great guy!" chapter. Alternately titled "The Delusional Asshole."
My ex has done the same. 9/10 times he does anything with the kids he feels the need to send me a picture of them. I don't mind and will send a thank you or something but a couple of times he sent one of himself with the kids. No response from me. I hope he got the point.
Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013
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