Today I googled howorker's name. I know, I know, I shouldn't do that, it's not good for healing, on and on.
But, I did it anyway, and what I found is interesting.
Today, I found that she was a bridesmaid in a wedding a few years ago and she is going to be maid-of-honor in her sister's wedding in two weeks.
I want to email the person who got married a few years ago and say, "Hey I hope you aren't leaving HOworker alone with you hubby. She likes to have sex with married men. You should totally ask her about it!"
Then I want to send a little letter to her sister saying. "Some advice on your upcoming wedding...don't be a big whore like your sister is. And pray that your H doesn't meet a skank like her."
Ahh...but it's just a fantasy. As usual I will suck it up and be the bigger person. Take the high road and all that. Although I'll have to make sure I don't drink within the next to weeks, or there is a strong possibility those emails will be sent.
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.