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dameia posted 8/5/2013 16:01 PM

Today I googled howorker's name. I know, I know, I shouldn't do that, it's not good for healing, on and on.

But, I did it anyway, and what I found is interesting.

Today, I found that she was a bridesmaid in a wedding a few years ago and she is going to be maid-of-honor in her sister's wedding in two weeks.

I want to email the person who got married a few years ago and say, "Hey I hope you aren't leaving HOworker alone with you hubby. She likes to have sex with married men. You should totally ask her about it!"

Then I want to send a little letter to her sister saying. "Some advice on your upcoming wedding...don't be a big whore like your sister is. And pray that your H doesn't meet a skank like her."

Ahh...but it's just a fantasy. As usual I will suck it up and be the bigger person. Take the high road and all that. Although I'll have to make sure I don't drink within the next to weeks, or there is a strong possibility those emails will be sent.

SadFlower posted 8/5/2013 17:41 PM

Damela, I also googled the OW recently (against my better judgment) and discovered she's become a deacon in her church and helps distribute communion. You have no idea how badly I was itching to e-mail the pastor and tell her just how unworthy OW is for such a position. Of course, I did not.

1Faith posted 8/5/2013 17:49 PM

Although I'll have to make sure I don't drink within the next to weeks, or there is a strong possibility those emails will be sent

I will buy the first round...

weeping willow posted 8/5/2013 17:57 PM

You have no idea how badly I was itching to e-mail the pastor and tell her just how unworthy OW is for such a position.

SOW in our sitch was very active in her church. I did email her pastor. I have no regrets.

dameia posted 8/5/2013 18:01 PM

I will buy the first round...

Trust me Faith1 it will go downhill really fast. But at least it will be an entertaining ride!

1Faith posted 8/5/2013 18:09 PM

Consequences suck, don't they. The HO-Worker should of thought of all this before she chose to become the HO.

BeyondBreaking posted 8/5/2013 18:20 PM

I would have e-mailed the pastor. Nothing wrong with that. :)

I sent a copy of former fiance's "home movie" with OW to his parents. Lol

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