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gma56 posted 8/5/2013 17:02 PM

That is what FT called me up until his affairs started.

Well I hate that name now and NO ONE will ever call me that again. It has NO good memories for me when FT was still calling me his pet name, cheating, and lying to me.


So I'm getting gas today and I had trouble with the gas hose nozzel. The attendant came out and the poor innocent man said, "I'll reset the pump and move you to the next one, Sweet Pea."

I told him that name isn't one I like and I AM divorced from the FT that called me that. I didn't trigger but said my preference of not being called that name.
Poor guy didn't know what hit him.

JUST DON'T EVER FUCKING CALL ME SWEET PEA !! NEVER !!

[This message edited by gma56 at 5:07 PM, August 5th (Monday)]

Crescita posted 8/5/2013 17:13 PM

I'll resist the temptation, but can I call you toots?

yewtree posted 8/5/2013 17:13 PM

Teach him to try to help you!
Sweetp..... I mean, GMA!

better4me posted 8/5/2013 17:21 PM

Poor guy didn't know what hit him.
I have a feeling you are a force to be reckoned with!

Threnody posted 8/5/2013 17:46 PM

Would "Honey Badger" be okay?

gma56 posted 8/5/2013 17:48 PM

I'll resist the temptation, but can I call you toots
That's better than Sweet Pea to me !

Teach him to try to help you!
Sweetp..... I mean, GMA!
I had my card # already in the broken pump so he had to clear everything. I'll ignore the almost slip Yewtree.

I have a feeling you are a force to be reckoned with
i really have found my old inner bitch since the divorce is final.

gma56 posted 8/5/2013 17:49 PM

Would "Honey Badger" be okay?
You know, that really fits me now.

GabyBaby posted 8/5/2013 17:50 PM

Would "Honey Badger" be okay?

gma56 posted 8/5/2013 17:53 PM

That poor guy ! I live in a small town and only one person usually working. When he sees a black SUV pull up to the pumps, he'll probably put the closed sign on.

[This message edited by gma56 at 6:06 PM, August 5th (Monday)]

GabyBaby posted 8/5/2013 17:57 PM

You may need to bring him a baked good and an apology next time you see him.

FaithFool posted 8/5/2013 18:00 PM

Gotta find you the vanity plates now:

HUNY BDGER

Rowr!

gma56 posted 8/5/2013 18:08 PM

Baked goods might be a good idea.

License plates are a perfect solution. It would warn everyone who I am.
Wonder if I can change my SI name ?

asurvivor posted 8/5/2013 18:34 PM

Frozen pea's always cause me to trigger but that's another painful story.

caregiver9000 posted 8/5/2013 19:44 PM

Baked goods... I could give you a good recipe for split pea soup.

I think the vanity plate is a grand idea!!

On the serious side, good for not triggering. WTG!! And for voicing your preference. If you told him you prefer "honey... Honey badger" (in the Bond, James Bond) style he might swoon at your feet!!!

InnerLight posted 8/5/2013 20:08 PM

I hate it when strangers call me 'pet' names. Way too familiar. I was called 'hun' at the eye office by the receptionist the other day and it felt so disrespectful - I think she was just used to talking to her kids that way.

There is a lot of trouble to be caused by using pet names with people you don't know.

Good for you for not triggering and just giving the guy a hard time. He now knows he can take that sweet pea and stuff it where the sun don't shine.

SweetheartVixen posted 8/6/2013 03:34 AM

You made my day again. I get such a kick out of your posts.

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