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User Topic: My last night in marital home since 1989
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here I am. Happy to be moving on. Would not trade anything to be going to a new place with out him.

Of course he increases the drama this week. Tries to break into the marital house when he knows I am not there (had a feeling, drove home and caught the SOB walking around the house trying to gain access).

My girls are staying with him while I pack and pack and pack. Then unpack etc.

Posting here because I feel so alone. Alone and lonely. Brave and pathetically afraid at the same time.

I do not remember being this tired ever.

Damn.


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1730 | Registered: Mar 2004
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a huge job !!!
Then to have SOB being a shit doesn't help.

I moved from the marital house at this time last year after being there from 1982-2012.
I pretty much threw or gave away everything just so I didn't have to see or move it.

The hard work will be worth it when you have your own place that SOB isn't welcome in or ever lived in with you.

Forward !
Gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 9:24 PM, August 5th (Monday)]


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((rising))))) Sending you comfort, my friend.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26546 | Registered: Aug 2011
risingfromashes
♀ 3903
Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am doing a major downsizing so have pitched, donated or given away many things,

I am bone-weary and still have much to do before closing.

I am really afraid and exhilarated at the same time.

I am actually thinking of sending an email blast out to ask for help.

Would that be rude?
There are about 20 people I know who have offered or I have assisted in the past.

I really need help.


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1730 | Registered: Mar 2004
gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

am actually thinking of sending an email blast out to ask for help.

Would that be rude?

Not rude at all. Everyone needs help, hit FB too and Twitter if ya do that.
Time to call the troops !


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are about 20 people I know who have offered or I have assisted in the past.
Sweetie - ASK!!! I guarantee you that you will receive. Hell, if I lived closer, I'd be on your doorstep tomorrow morning with a smile on my face.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26546 | Registered: Aug 2011
Pentup
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Member # 20563
Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If yOu are the type to NEVER help a friend in need, by all means, do not ask for help.

ASK. People do not like to intrude, but most like to feel needed. Put the word out. Let your friends help. You will be doing them a favor.


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6718 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are things going Rising?? Are you getting settled in???


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
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