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User Topic: he went out last night
rachelc
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Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and I was happy for him!! Went with two guys he lifts with - they both actually work with me!

He invited me along. I declined and said let's just try this - we agreed on an hour and 15 minutes. He was home on the dot and all was good.

He saw one of our daughter's friends (a guy) there and took a picture with him and sent it to us.

Wow, we've come a long way.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Relax, everything’s out of control” – Adi Da Samraj


Posts: 6836 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
itainteasy
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Member # 31094
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great!

Posts: 3446 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Knowing
♀ 37044
Member # 37044
Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sent you a picture? With a witness? Oh, he's doing it right!

Congrats to you. Baby steps.


Me: BW, Him: fWH
Together 12 years
My EA (?) 2005-2011
His STA/PA: D-day: 19/09/12
TT: 08/12/12

We are in R.


Posts: 698 | Registered: Oct 2012
musiclovingmom
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Member # 38207
Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! It feels so good for that to happen.

Posts: 1354 | Registered: Jan 2013
lordhasaplan?
♂ 30079
Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good positive steps toward trust.


BS- Me (43)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

Posts: 2000 | Registered: Nov 2010
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great!


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 11378 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
crazyblindsided
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Member # 35215
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful!


BS/FWS (me):41 Madhatter
WS/BS:44 Serial Cheater
Together 19 years, Married 14
DD(11) DS(8)
DDay(s) Too many to count
Final Dday 7/11/14 Same OW2

Posts: 2496 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful update!

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