Topic: he went out last night
Member # 30314
| Posted: 8:07 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
and I was happy for him!! Went with two guys he lifts with - they both actually work with me!
He invited me along. I declined and said let's just try this - we agreed on an hour and 15 minutes. He was home on the dot and all was good.
He saw one of our daughter's friends (a guy) there and took a picture with him and sent it to us.
Wow, we've come a long way.
Posts: 7613 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
Member # 31094
| Posted: 8:18 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Posts: 3446 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Member # 37044
| Posted: 9:22 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Sent you a picture? With a witness? Oh, he's doing it right!
Congrats to you. Baby steps.
BW, R last 4 years of marriage out of 15... FINALLY, HAPPILY DIVORCING!
We are in R.
Posts: 698 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 38207
| Posted: 9:30 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Awesome! It feels so good for that to happen.
Posts: 1595 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 30079
| Posted: 12:39 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Good positive steps toward trust.
BS- Me (43)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Posts: 2071 | Registered: Nov 2010
Member # 31240
| Posted: 1:03 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.
Posts: 16549 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Member # 35215
| Posted: 1:48 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
That is wonderful!
BS/FWS (me):43 Madhatter
WS/BS:46 Serial Cheater
Together 20 years, Married 15
DDay(s) Too many to count
False R 7/11/14 Same OW2
"Never seek validation from those who are unworthy."
Posts: 4044 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Member # 31528
| Posted: 2:13 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013|
Posts: 50550 | Registered: Mar 2011
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