Just wondering if anyone is concerned that their xWS' lack of remorse will have a negative effect on their children?
My ex showed no remorse whatsoever and I'm pretty sure he has done nothing to fix himself. This makes me wonder about the type of person and parent he is to my children. I know I can't control anything he does, nor do I want to. But my children's welfare is the most important thing to me. I just don't want them growing up having to deal with his issues.
For example, yesterday he texted me to tell me he is ill again. He has the children for a week since last Friday, the longest I've been apart from them. He always lets me know when he is ill and to be honest it's not my problem anymore. I don't tell him when I'm ill, I just get on with things.
Because he is such a mummy's boy and I nurtured him too much is our relationship I really hope that him being like this is just going to have a negative effect on my children.
So he's got a virus, so what?! Life goes on. I always make sure my children see that sometimes we just have to pick ourselves up and carry on. He just wallows in his own self pity.
A bit of a rant really!