My WH was raised in an abusive home. I know he has a lot of buried resentment towards his mom for staying with her violently abusive husband. He always wanted to be different and have a different life for his children. Since his A, he feels very depressed (understandably).
Sometimes it seems like he is actually angry at me for forgiving him - like he has lost respect for me because I didn't kick him out. He keeps asking me if I am afraid to be alone, keeps reassuring me that he would provide for me and the kids if I left. He sincerely wants R, and I have zero doubts about that.
Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this? Or if you are a WS, have you secretly lost respect for your spouse for forgiving you?