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gma56 posted 8/7/2013 17:15 PM

CW is back in my life after a year.
He needed a break after we finally got our divorces finished. He suffered with a bad case of PTSD and needed to relocate to figure out his direction. We met when he was only 2 mo from separation so he had healing to do that I couldn't help him with.

He's doing much better and has refocused. We talked 6-7 times in the last year. A few weeks ago he called... I had given up and was NC for 2mo.
I tried to detach (tried every SI idea and a few I read about)and even was accused of still having feelings for CW by another man. Other man was right, I really thought it was over forever. We're going slow but it's all good so far and no more divorces to navigate through. Whew !

We both have work obligations but it can be worked around.
I'm happy.

Crescita posted 8/7/2013 17:27 PM

Take2 posted 8/7/2013 17:32 PM

I'm happy, you're happy!

Williesmom posted 8/7/2013 17:41 PM

Yay! I'm happy for you.

wildbananas posted 8/7/2013 17:42 PM

Aw! Happy for you gma. You deserve it.

nowiknow23 posted 8/7/2013 17:44 PM

gma - since it's a secret, I'll keep my squee very hushed.

heartbroken_kk posted 8/7/2013 17:46 PM


peridot posted 8/7/2013 17:51 PM

SoHappyNow posted 8/7/2013 17:57 PM


Griefstricken25 posted 8/7/2013 18:08 PM

You deserve it, gma!

gma56 posted 8/7/2013 18:11 PM

Thanks ya'll !
I hope this is true in my case.

jo2love posted 8/7/2013 19:31 PM

persevere posted 8/7/2013 20:05 PM

That's great lady
Kind of gives me a little hope about my breakup in May - similar timeline from D.

Really happy for you!

FaithFool posted 8/7/2013 22:28 PM

Yay! Secret's out!

cayc posted 8/7/2013 23:00 PM

hexed posted 8/7/2013 23:29 PM


gma56 posted 8/7/2013 23:59 PM

I missed him more than he will ever know. All 6'4" of him.

It was a needed break but the timing sucked.

Susi (unicornsearcher) had so much faith that he would be back. She knew what I didn't. I would love to tell her and tell her right now, she was right. Love and miss ya Susi ! She thought CW was one of a kind man. I agree.

[This message edited by gma56 at 2:19 AM, August 8th (Thursday)]

gogirl posted 8/8/2013 08:10 AM

Wonderful news...just love it!! Good for you two!

lynnm1947 posted 8/8/2013 08:23 AM

gma, after the trauma of your marriage coupled with the trauma of Susi's death, I for one think you deserve some happiness. Good on you. Good on CW for realizing he had a good thing going!

Edited to add: And Susi already knows.

[This message edited by lynnm1947 at 8:37 AM, August 8th (Thursday)]

Newlease posted 8/8/2013 09:07 AM


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