Me BH 46
About a month ago I found out that my WW had been having a 3 year long emotional affair (she says just emotional). This startd right on the heals of a 3 month long physical affair. Just when I was at the point of fully forgiving about the first one this other crap comes up. It is so bizarre, wife is 42 OM I the so called emotional affair is 71 (yes you read that correctly). Phone records indicate they spoke on average 96 times per month for the last 16 months.
Anyway, she introduces him to our local bar restaurant hangout even though he lives (with his wife) on the other side of town. He now hangs out there regularly and I see his car. The other day after seeing his car pull out, I doubled back to my home to see is car turning around in my neighbors driveway. I live on a dead end street. When I confronted WW she defended the conduct by saying there a 100s of reasons he could have driven by.
I about at the end of my rope with the 3 years worth of lies. Is this unacceptable behavior or am I blowing out of proportion?
Dday 1: 10/20/2010 -- 3 month physical affair
Dday2: 7/7/2013 -- 3 year emotional affair but I think it was more.