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User Topic: turning a corner
♀ 39667
Member # 39667
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In a weird turn of events, I seem to be feeling a little less concerned with SAWH's AP. It's all making more sense to me...and I am giving a lot less sh*t about it. Obviously, I am never going to want to hang out with her, I want SAWH to avoid her and continue NC, and I might give her a piece of my mind if I ever ran into her but I feel like I am starting to let go of her relevance.

BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

Posts: 932 | Registered: Jun 2013
♀ 35238
Member # 35238
Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's good progress! It feels good, doesn't it? I still slip up sometimes and spend too much energy thinking about the OW, but it doesn't happen as often.

Here's hoping she becomes less and less relevant to you...

BS: Me (44)
XH: Husband (49)
Married 10 years
Two children 9 & 20 (my stepson)
D-day #1: 12/18/11
D-day #2: 8/26/12 (still in contact w/ OW)
Status: Divorced - 6/18/15

Posts: 458 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Midwest
Topic Posts: 2

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