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Topic: Making small progress

hopefor1day
♀ 39815
Member # 39815

Posted: 8:45 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013

So today was a huge step in the right direction for us in my mind. I had my 2nd IC session and I am enjoying talking with my counselor and getting all of my feelings out. Its interesting to talk about how my past and my family can contribute to the decisions I have made in my marriage and life. My husband was not super excited about the thought of going to IC for himself since our first try at MC did not work because I did not put the effort into it. I ruined the experience for him. Well...today he decided to set an appointment and start going to IC! This makes me so happy! I have wanted this for him for a while and want him to be happy and have someone there for him. I am very optimistic that this is a huge step for us. Maybe in the future we can incorporate MC and heal and grow together. I know that this is not a fix all and that it will still take alot of hard work and dedication but today I feel true sense of hope for us and our future together.

FWS Me 32
BS Him 36
“So it's not gonna be easy. It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me... everyday.”
―

Posts: 14 | Registered: Jul 2013

SurprisinglyOkay
♀ 36684
Member # 36684

Posted: 6:56 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013

I hope IC really helps you both!

Thanks for sharing your hope.

FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children

"Your secrets keep you sick"

Posts: 1168 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B

RemorsefulWH
♂ 36446
Member # 36446

Posted: 12:06 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013

Make sure you keep it up and put everything into it.

Good luck.

Me: WH 33
Wife: BS 32 (love of my life)
DD 4
Dday1: 12/03/12 and a number of others until 15/04/13, disgusted in myself

Posts: 75 | Registered: Aug 2012

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