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hopefor1day posted 8/7/2013 20:45 PM

So today was a huge step in the right direction for us in my mind. I had my 2nd IC session and I am enjoying talking with my counselor and getting all of my feelings out. Its interesting to talk about how my past and my family can contribute to the decisions I have made in my marriage and life. My husband was not super excited about the thought of going to IC for himself since our first try at MC did not work because I did not put the effort into it. I ruined the experience for him. Well...today he decided to set an appointment and start going to IC! This makes me so happy! I have wanted this for him for a while and want him to be happy and have someone there for him. I am very optimistic that this is a huge step for us. Maybe in the future we can incorporate MC and heal and grow together. I know that this is not a fix all and that it will still take alot of hard work and dedication but today I feel true sense of hope for us and our future together.

SurprisinglyOkay posted 8/8/2013 06:56 AM

I hope IC really helps you both!

Thanks for sharing your hope.

RemorsefulWH posted 8/8/2013 12:06 PM

Make sure you keep it up and put everything into it.

Good luck.