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User Topic: Advice needed! Should I pull the plug?
♀ 39451
Member # 39451
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay WH has been chatting with a girl who is 20 years younger since March, flew to Philippine to see her twice, tomorrow he is flying the third time to see her, he is crazy. Sent her thousands of dollars,

We are getting the separation agreement done right now, since we own business it took forever that get the final number done about the business. So we have to wait....

We spent over 10 years to build a good financial foundation, good thing every single asset including business I own 50%.

I was so mad at myself that I could not be strong or bitch enough to fight back, I have the power to sell everything ( inventory) in the business so he got no money to f*** around. He will loose his biz and come back homeless as I will put restraining order all he can do is to talk to my lawyer. No business no money, he will only get money when we sells everything.

My blood is boiling when I started to think about it. I am not the kind of person to get in nasty fight. But I want to do it this time so bad, I want him to suffer I stead of shitting on me all the time.

But everyone around me will tell me to settle in peace which I was doing. As we have young children and it can only do more harm in the future. Blahhh!

Give me some strength or advice please!!

M: 10 years both late 40s.
3 Children
DDay: April 2013
Legally separated on Oct 2013.
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

Posts: 203 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
♀ 19595
Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get yourself to an attorney NOW before doing anything. Don't do anything that will look bad on yourself. Get legal advice and go with it.

FT left me for a Thai Twat he spent hundred thousands so do it now ! Twat is 34 yrs younger than him and they are now married, living in Twatland, and expecting a baby in a month. He's 74 yrs old !!!! Dumb fuckers

It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20489 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
♀ 1330
Member # 1330
Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hire a great attorney and file for divorce with a financial restraining order. Also, go after the money he spent on this nonsense--it is dissipation of marital assets and subject to censure,


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 31204 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
♀ 16482
Member # 16482
Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Should you pull the plug ? I'm with Cat on this one.

I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.

Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
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