I dug around the Healing Library but couldn't find much on the "Escape" mentality. Note that it might simply be that I am rubbish at finding information.
What I mean by the "Escape" mentality is the kind of thinking that cheaters use to...I guess "build" a safe bubble for themselves to escape the problems of a marriage, problems that might mean an impending divorce that they do not want. So within the bubble they can find some of what they need, which includes what they get from cheating.
Anyone have any links or info? Thanks in advance.