Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-

SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: Thankful (46008)

User Topic: It happened again
inmisery1
♀ 30905
Member # 30905
Default  Posted: 1:01 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well it happened again, My intuition said something was up, it was right. I went downstairs and caught him having a conversation with his girlfriend. I'm numb

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jan 2011
inmisery1
♀ 30905
Member # 30905
Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yea, it's my birthday, Happy Birthday to me

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jan 2011
TS68
♀ 40211
Member # 40211
Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey inmisery1... Happy birthday!!! Knowing is better than living in lies. You just got your present. It just was thrown at you hard and hit you in the stomach. But, someday, no matter how things turn out, you may send a thank you note... You deserve better!
Take care of yourself


Married 20 years

Posts: 255 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
RidingHealingRd
♀ 33867
Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry that you are facing this again. How cruel can a person be?

You DO deserve better.

Sorry that you learned of this on your birthday.

{{{inmisery1}}}


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2157 | Registered: Nov 2011
OnAnIsland
♀ 34319
Member # 34319
Default  Posted: 1:36 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Double post

[This message edited by OnAnIsland at 1:37 AM, August 8th (Thursday)]


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


Posts: 1482 | Registered: Dec 2011
OnAnIsland
♀ 34319
Member # 34319
Default  Posted: 1:36 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry that this happened again and on your birthday. Sending clarity and strength to you. Take care of yourself.


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


Posts: 1482 | Registered: Dec 2011
brainless twit
♀ 12085
Member # 12085
Default  Posted: 2:25 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My first D-Day was on my son's 8th birthday. He turned 15 yesterday and it still nearly smothered me just remembering... (Having a new, recent D-Day didn't help either.) It's bad enough to have so many ruined memories and days, but to have them coincide with a time that should be happy and special is just nine kinds of wrong.

I'm so sorry, IM. I don't know exactly how you feel but I can imagine. I wish I could give you a hug! We are here for you.


"Sometimes I guess there just aren't enough rocks." --Forrest Gump

D-Day 8/7/06
Divorced 12/14/09
R Began 5/21/11
D-Day #2 7/9/13 (OW #2 is OW #1's first cousin)
Limbo? I don't even know if that's what this is.


Posts: 1541 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Kentucky
Topic Posts: 7

Return to Forum This Topic is Archived
adultry
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.